EXCHANGING OF THE RINGS
FOR A WEDDING CEREMONY
(alternate selections)


The words you choose to speak to each other when exchanging rings are among the most important of the ceremony. 

For each selection in this section, we provide alternatives to match the kind of ceremony you're looking for. For example, within the major categories of Secular, Spiritual, and Religious, we provide Traditional, Modern, and Romantic selections from which you can choose. Secular selections have no references to God or any specific deities, while Spiritual and Religious selections may mention God, spirituality, specific deities, or some combination of those topics. 

These selections can be used in place of the Exchange of the Rings in the Classic Ceremonies. Please remember that you can use these selections "as is" or change the wording in whatever way you wish to better suit your ceremony. Also, at the bottom of the page we provide links to other selections from around the web. Feel free to visit and choose wording from those links as well.


EXCHANGING OF THE RINGS: EXAMPLES
(SECULAR TRADITIONAL)
1. With this ring I thee wed.

(SECULAR TRADITIONAL)
2. I give you this ring as a sign of my love and faithfulness.

(SECULAR TRADITIONAL)
3. This ring I give you in token of my faithfulness and love, and as a pledge to honor you with my whole being, and to share with you my worldly goods.

(SECULAR TRADITIONAL)
4. I give you this ring as a symbol that I am bound to you always, through my love, and with all my heart.

(SECULAR MODERN)
5. Beloved _______________, I give you this ring as a symbol of my steadfastness and joy in loving you, and as a pledge to honor you with all that I am and all I shall become for my whole life.

(SECULAR MODERN)
6. _________________, I give you this ring that you may wear it as a symbol of our marriage.

(SECULAR MODERN)
7. I give you this ring as a symbol of my commitment to you. It is a token of my faithfulness and love, and my pledge to honor and respect you.

(SECULAR MODERN)
8. As a sign of my love and that I am choosing to share my whole life's journey with you, and of my knowing that in marrying you I shall become much more than I am, I give you this ring, with the pledge that with you, I shall become most truly myself and offer such gifts as I have and I am to the world.

(SECULAR ROMANTIC)
9. With this ring I pledge to you my deepest love and devotion.

(SECULAR ROMANTIC)
10. With this ring, I pledge myself to you, to our marriage, and to our everlasting love.

(SECULAR ROMANTIC)
11. I give you this ring as a symbol of my love for you, my covenant with you, and my faithfulness to you.

(SECULAR ROMANTIC)
12. I give you this ring with the promise that I will love you and keep my heart open to you all the days of my life.

(SECULAR ROMANTIC - WITH A THANK YOU)
13. Ring Giver: Dearest, _______________, my love, this ring is the token of my love and of the hopes and all the joys I most dearly behold in you. You are my promise and my most magically answered plea, you are my wish, my dream, my quest; you are my gift, my lover, my double, my perfectly matching companion. You are my light, my love, my limbs, my soul's most mirroring shadow, my body's closest friend. I marry you with this ring, with the wings of my love, with all that I have and am.
Ring Receiver: Thank you, my love. I will wear forever this ring as the sign of my joy and the depth of your love.

(SPIRITUAL TRADITIONAL)
14. I give you this ring as a symbol that I am bound to you always, through my love, in my soul, and with all my heart.

(SPIRITUAL MODERN)
15. And now as a token of your love and of your deep desire to be forever united in heart and soul, you ________________, [Celebrant Hands Bride's Ring to Groom] may place a ring on the finger of your bride and repeat after me...
________________, I give you this ring as a symbol of my love and faithfulness to you.
By the same token ________________, [Celebrant Hands Groom's Ring to Bride] you may place a ring on the finger of your groom, and repeat after me...
________________, I give you this ring as a symbol of my love and faithfulness to you.

(RELIGIOUS/SPIRITUAL TRADITIONAL)
16. I give you this ring as a symbol of my vow, and with all that I am, and all that I have, I honor you, in the name of God.

(RELIGIOUS/SPIRITUAL TRADITIONAL)
17. I give you this ring in token of the covenant made today between us; in the name of God.

(RELIGIOUS/SPIRITUAL ROMANTIC)
18. In token and pledge of our constant faith and abiding love, with this ring I thee wed, in the name of God.

(RELIGIOUS/CHRISTIAN TRADITIONAL)
19. With this ring I thee wed, and with my body I thee honor, and with all my worldly goods I thee endow. In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.


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